I believe that the men can destroy their celestial beings. Maybe that is what they hold over them. Do this evil and/or tasteless thing or I will destroy you.
That, certainly would make your actions look even worse to God. Plus, that is evil and wrong. You don’t have that right.
I don’t know how people can go about getting them back to where they belong, but someone does: Mormon males, Catholics.
PERHAPS IT IS AS SIMPLE AS THE MALE IN CONTROL SENDING HIS BEING TO HEAVEN. THEY HAVE TO DO WHAT THEIR “Master” TELLS THEM. TRY THAT AND PASS ON THE RESULTS.